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In the dim recesses of our childhood we were barely aware of the intricacies of family relationships. We knew who grandma was, where our uncles lived and which auntie had a sixpence on the sideboard to cheer us on our way after a visit – didn’t we? We knew the tragedy of her mother's premature death and our Mum, Hilda Cook, had been brought up by her aunt and uncle in Leicester. Her father married again.
This is the story of the Naylor family from South Normanton, a mining village near Alfreton in Derbyshire.
John Naylor marries Ann Cotterill. John Naylor, our great grandfather, was born in Somercotes, Derbyshire in February 1836, the second son of John and Ann Naylor. Like his father before him, by the age of 15 years he had become a miner. He met and married local girl and dressmaker, Ann, the daughter of another miner Henry Cotterill in the nearby village of Pinxton on April 24th 1854. It is abundantly clear from the maps of the area that these are still tightly knit communities, even today, and the distances between them are small.
England Census: Cotes Park, Alfreton 1871 England Census: Cotes Park, Alfreton 1881 England Census: Cotes Park, Alfreton 1891 John and Ann Naylor lived initially in South Normanton and then in the 1860s moved to the developing district of Cotes Park. They had a large family; seven sons (Joseph, Thomas, Edwin, John Henry, Alfred, Maurice and Arthur) and two daughters (Mary and Miriam) living to adulthood. There are also suggestions of a daughter who died in infancy. (NOW THIS IS A CONUNDRUM) The following paragraphs recount the stories of the three lines that we have direct knowledge or experience. We are still searching for the descendents of the other brothers and hope to add further notes about them in the future. “Nunkie” – Mary’s line (i)
Mary Naylor was born in 1866 at Cotes Park. When she was fifteen she had taken a post as a domestic servant at the household of John and Margaret Stoddart in Church Street, Ripley. He was a printer and confectioner. However she had returned to the family home by the time of the 1891 census.
In the 1930s William bought two adjacent houses on Stoughton Road in Oadby. He and Mary moved into one of these, the other was given to his son Cyril. Hilda was married at Oadby Parish Church to George Craxford in May 1940 and William was on hand to give her away.
"Two Swans?" - Mary’s line (ii) Cyril Ball married Dorothy Alice Hart in Leicester in August 1926. I well remember his chuckle of delight whenever he explained their initials: COB and DAB. Cyril became Chief Clerk for the Leicester Health Authority and had his office on London Road. He was also the first relative that I recall having a car.
Cyril died in 1965 leaving Dorrie to live on alone in their home for the next ten years. Cyril’s brother William moved to Cheltenham after he was married. We saw very little of Uncle William and Auntie Louie although there were always envelopes from them under the tree at Christmas time. I was often reminded of the time (at about the age of six I think) when I misread the handwriting on the card and asked who “Auntie Loonie” was. They had a son and a daughter (Peter and Margaret). Margaret worked for a long time at the University in Nottingham. “And The Consequence was …. !” – John Henry’s line. John Henry Naylor, John and Ann’s fourth son was born in Cotes Park in 1869. He followed the family calling into the coal mine. He married Lily Haywood in 1890 and the family moved to Alfreton. They had three children (daughters Ruby and Clarice and son Lancelot John). Ruby’s middle name was Marion although some documents and offical indexes spell it as Manon. We have been told that Edwin Naylor had a large family which included twins who were born in September 1889. The girl, Ruby Manon, died at two months; the boy, Launcelot Calladine died in December 1890.
They had no children either. However Sunday afternoons were destined to keep us amused after tea with simple childhood card and “pen and pencil” games. It was here that we learned Old Maid, the hilarity of Consequences and divined how many European cities began with the letter ‘Q’. Even after all these years I can still remember her rolling rounded Derbyshire accent – a marked contrast to the local Leicester strains. Clarrie died in 1970. Ruby and Clarice continued to live together in close proximity to Dorrie for the next four years. After Clarice died too Ruby moved into a nursing home for the last couple of years of her life. Uncle Jack (Lancelot) continued to live in Bedworth with his wife. They had no children. From Derbyshire into Leicester - Miriam's line
Miriam Naylor was the youngest child of John and Ann Naylor and was our maternal grandmother. She was born in Cotes Park in 1879 - when Joseph, her eldest brother was already 24 years of age. She attended a local school. After her father died she moved to Leicester to live with her sister Mary's family. She was employed as a draper's assistant.
After the marriage they moved to Northampton when George worked as a store manager. By all accounts married life was happy for the couple. She became pregnant with her first child in 1916 when she was aged 37 years. The birth of her daughter, Hilda Mary, was complicated by a puerpural fever and she died within six days of a septicaemia. See "A WAND'RING MINSTREL, I"). This month marks the ninetieth anniversary of her death. As we have told above, the infant Hilda was brought up by William and Mary, first in Leicester and then when they moved to Oadby. Her father served in the Army in Malta during the first World War. He married again in 1918. Hilda married in 1940 and after the second World War we appeared on the scene. The rest is history. Epilogue Within a space of about ten years two of these family lines had died out; the third had been blurred for more than half a century. We had little inkling as children of the significance of these issues. Large families from a century before had become small families through infant mortality, singledom and childless marriages and then just disappeared. It was only through our recent researches that we have been able to uncover the links between these branches and how they relate to us. It is only now with the increasing accessibility of the internet that we have been able to reconstruct our full maternal family tree back to its roots in the coalfields of Derbyshire. A GALLERY OF CERTIFICATES We have traced most of the relevant certificates for the Naylor family and these will be added to the database over the course of the next few weeks. We have also grouped them together in this section for ease of reference.BIRTHS To John Naylor and Ann CotterillBessey Naylor: 1863 Edwin Naylor: 1863 Maurice Naylor: 1871 Arthur Naylor: 1872 Miriam Naylor: 1879 To John Henry Naylor and Lily Haywood Ruby Naylor: 1891 Clarice Naylor: 1892 MARRIAGES John Naylor to Ann Cotterill: 1854Edwin Naylor to Elizabeth Calladine: 1885 John Henry Naylor to Lily Haywood: 1890 Mary Naylor to William Ball: 1891 Miriam Naylor to George Cook: 1909 Ruby Naylor to Clarence Wych: 1919 DEATHS John Naylor: 1897Miriam Cook: 1916 REFERENCES: 1) An electrical servant's call box: Salvo!: Archetectural Salvage and Antiques2) Wright's Directory Leicester 1906 Pg 185. Historical Directories: A University of Leicester Project Added: May 31st 2006 Phönix Site of the Year - 2009 © The Craxford Family Genealogy Magazine and individual copyright holders.Edited and maintained by Alan D. Craxford 2005 - 10. Contents may not be reproduced without permission. |
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